First of all, we should find out the real reasons why parents do not want to live in nursing homes, which usually exist in the following four situations:
首先我们应该找出父母不想住在养老院的真正原因，通常主要存在以下4种情况：

1. The elderly are worried that their children have to pay a lot of fees to the nursing home every month, which will cause greater economic pressure on the family, and it is better to save money than to care for the elderly at home.
1、老人担心自己的孩子每个月都要给养老院支付大量的费用，会给家庭造成较大的经济压力，不如在家养老比较省钱。

2, worry about the people around them said they were sent to the nursing home because their children are not filial, because the traditional concept of many old people is too strong, and has not changed with The Times, this situation needs children to explain to the elderly in time, counseling dreg their psychological pressure.
2、担心周围的人说他们被送去养老院是因为他们的孩子不孝顺，因为许多老人的传统观念太强，并没有随着时代的变化而改变，这种情况需要儿女及时向老人解释，辅导疏通他们的心理压力。

3, the elderly worry that they are not well cared for in the nursing home, the hardware is not perfect enough, and the nursing staff will be bad to themselves.
3、老人担心自己在养老院没有得到很好的照顾，硬件设施也不够完善，护理人员会对自己不好。

4, afraid that they will not adapt to the new environment and new lifestyle, psychologically and subconsciously resist the nursing home.
4、害怕自己不适应新环境和新生活方式，在心理和潜意识上抵制养老院。

Most elderly people do not want to go to the nursing home for the above reasons, encountered in this situation, we do not hold a tough attitude to the elderly, to find ways to help the elderly out of his own psychological burden or traditional concepts.
大多数老人不想去养老院的原因无非是以上几种，遇到这种状况时，我们不要对老人持强硬态度，要想办法来帮助老人走出他自己的心理负担或传统观念。

We need to make the elderly understand that sending them to the nursing home does not mean that we will no longer take care of them. In our spare time, we will often visit the elderly in the nursing home and take them home for two days, so that they can think that they are still an important member of the family.
我们需要让老人明白送他们去养老院并不是我们就不再照顾他们了，在工作闲暇之余我们也会经常去养老院看望老人，并把老人接回家里住两天，让他认为自己仍然是家庭中很重要的一员。

We can also take the elderly to choose a nursing home, so that the elderly can first feel the warm environment of the nursing home, but also by the way to see how the environment and facilities of the nursing home are arranged, whether the elderly can live comfortably here.
我们还可以带老人一起去挑选养老院，让老人先感受一下养老院中温馨的环境，也可以顺便看看养老院的环境和设施布置的如何，是否能让老人在这里过得舒适。

Nowadays, most nursing homes are equipped with perfect facilities and nursing staff, which can actually make the life of the elderly in the nursing home more fulfilling than in the average family, after all, there are many elderly people who are similar in age to their parents, and they chat and play with their parents more without generation gap.
如今大多数养老院都配备完善的设施和*的护理人员，其实可以让老人在养老院的生活比在一般家庭中过得更加充实，毕竟粪池模具 路缘石模具 唐山通风管道 塑钢电缆挂钩 钢纤维 钢制拍门  里面还有许多和父母年龄相似的老年人，他们与父母的聊天和玩乐更加没有代沟。

As children, it is well worth spending more time helping the elderly to find the right way to support them, as long as they can live happily in their old age.
作为子女，只要能让老人的晚年过得幸福，多花费点时间帮助老人寻找适合他们的养老方式是很值得的。